Listen First: The Science of Praise
What is the science behind it?
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Praising children’s behaviour makes them feel safe and secure.
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Praising children the right way can improve self-esteem, increase motivation and enhance perseverance.
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Well measured and regular praise improves children’s behaviour and can reduce levels of hyperactivity and inattention.
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A positive parenting style using praise improves psychological and cognitive development in children. Neuroimaging studies show that a positive parenting style influences brain structure in children.
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Studies show that children develop higher self-esteem when their parents treat them warmly, but over-exaggerating or inflating praise can lower their self-esteem.
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The most effective praise is straightforward, specific and focused on effort, not ability or looks.